35 Questions That Make Someone Fall In Love

According to one study, two people can fall in love with each other after answering 35 questions sincerely and authentically.

The meeting should be intimate, peaceful, with only one final requirement: that the two of you look into each other’s eyes after having answered the questionnaire. So love will germinate.

An experiment to fall in love

It has been 20 years since Arthur Aron, a psychologist and professor at New York University, in the United States, carried out an experiment that consisted of proposing that two people who did not know each other, men and women, answered 35 questions. After answering them both should look into each other’s eyes for 4 minutes, and in silence.

Surprisingly, after 6 months the participants in this experiment had really fallen in love.

New York Times columnist Mandy Len Catron wanted to prove Dr. Aron’s experiment on herself and her life. The result obtained was that its participants also fell in love.

The key to these questions is that their answers open up and expose your vulnerable areas, allowing the two people to come together.

What are the 35 questions that make someone fall in love?

• If you could pick anyone in the world, who would you invite to dinner?
• Would you like to be recognized by others? In what scope?
• Before making a call, do you prepare what you are going to say? For what?
• What would your perfect day be like?
• When was the last time you sang alone? When did you last sing for someone?

• If you could live to be 90 years old and keep your 30-year-old mind or body for the last 60 years of your life, which would you choose?
• Do you see how you will die?
• Name three traits you and your partner might have in common.
• What thing/situation in your life are you most grateful for?
• If you could change something about the way you were raised, what would you change?
• In just four minutes, tell your partner the story of your life in as much detail as possible.
• If tomorrow you could wake up with a new talent or ability, what would it be?
• If you had a crystal ball that told the truth about you, your life and the future, what would you like to know?
• Is there something you’ve wanted to do for a long time? What prevents you from doing it?
• What was the most important achievement of your life?
• What do you value most about your friends and loved ones?

• What is your best memory?
• What is the most painful memory you’ve ever lived?
• If you knew you could die at any time, would it change anything in your current life? Why?
• What do friends mean to you?
• What role do love and affection play in your life?

• List, in order, your partner’s five most important qualities.
• How close is your relationship with your family? Do you believe you had a happy childhood?
• What do you think about your relationship with your mother?
• Start three true sentences with the word “we”
• Complete the following sentence: “I would like to share…..with someone.”
• If you wanted to be a close friend of your partner, what should he know about you?

• Tell your partner what you like about him. Be very honest and say what you would not be able to say to a stranger.
• Tell your partner about an unpleasant time in your life.
• When did you last cry and why?
• What do you never joke about?
• If you were going to die tonight and couldn’t talk to anyone, what would you regret not telling someone? Why haven’t you said?
• Whose death would affect him the most? Why?
• Share a personal problem with your partner and ask for advice on how to solve it. Then ask your partner what he thinks about your being so honest and sincere in telling the situation.

It may happen and it may not, but the truth is that we will have gained more complicity with the other person, because with these questions we reveal part of our soul.

Do you dare to experiment and fall in love?